Tricks are for Kids Ladies…

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Ok….ok…so I think we have all been in this situation….boy meets girl..girl thinks boy is cute…boy gets girls number…girl falls for boy….boy magically goes m.i.a. Ha…drives us ladies crazy everytime…the infamous “disappearing”act. I mean is it that they have a short attention span? The internal analysis begins…”was I not cute enough…is it because I didn’t give in…is it because I gave in…does my cooking suck…was I too talkative”…I mean honestly..we ladies go through every scenario possible to figure out why…why did he stop suddenly showing intrest. Well I hate to be honest girls…but sometimes it flat out means…he’s changed his mind. He’s not really that into you. Now you ask…but…he pursued me first…he got my number…he started it…lol..well ladies I hear you loud in clear…but obviously somewhere along the chase…he decided you were not what he wanted. You didn’t do anything wrong…trust me…it’s them..Not you..now ask me how I know…ok…here’s an example…I am an actress..when I go on an audition I’ve less than two-three min to leave a lasting impression. The director is watching me..from the moment I walk in to the moment I walk out. In that short amount of time the director already knows what they are looking for…for that specific role. Either the director is interested or not. It’s that simple. Now I may spark some interest..so I get what’s called a “call back”. It’s almost like he got my number and now I’m going on my first date. So I’m back at the “call backs”.. (the date)…but maybe I read the lines different..(turned him off)…maybe he realized the character he had in mind was taller for the part. So guess what happens next….the Director doesn’t cast me to be his Leading Lady. Ladies…my point is this…If the dude stops pursuing…stop looking at it as something you did wrong…it simply means your just not what he’s looking for. A grown man is not going to play games…if your not it…he will keep it moving…He shouldn’t have to play tricks…dangling a carrot in your face…this grown man…will state his intentions…pursue you…and it won’t be this huge mystery. Look,just because I wasn’t put in that one directors play…it didn’t stop me from auditioning for other play opportunities. Who knows i could be chosen for a bigger and better show…My point to you ladies is this, there will be other guys who come along..so let the dudes who likes playing  tricks.. Disappear….stop Trying to make them magically appear with your consistent…”Hey..wyd” texts…or your…”hey stranger” texts…look the dude is over it…so shouldnt you be?…Tricks are for kids ladies….it’s time you grow some and realize…there are grown men out there who aren’t out to play games..they do exist…the guy the truly wants to know you for you…..if your tired of the magic show…the consistent “poof” “where did he go” act…then keep it moving. It’s ok…obviously your wasting time…blocking a blessing for the next man whose actually ready to lead you..think of it as a process of elimination…these dudes are actually doing us a favor by removing themselves…I know he was cute girl…but…please..being cute is for babies..it’s time we ladies prepare for the man whose more than cute…what’s he bringing to the table..is he going to enhance you or hold you back. Does he have goals…or is he only looking to score…don’t be so lonely that you settle for a man who has no clue what he wants yet…let him disappear so he can find out who he is…if he happens to come back.. and you just happen to be available.. (however I highly doubt it) but just in case an incredible man hasn’t already claimed you…then give him a shot. Other than that…learn who you are lady…find your worth and stop allowing your self to depreciate as soon as he “rides” you off the lot. Mean while…I challenge you Ladies…to let  these dudes disappear…I dare you to allow them to see what rare diamond they missed out on…just stop playing the game with them. They want to disappear into thin air…well let them. No use in you chasing smokescreens…unless you truly enjoy magic shows for pure entertainment…just remember magic shows leave you feeling unfulfilled….bamboozled …or ripped off….it’s your choice though. Choose wisely….#tricksR4Kids

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